Negative people can often be very mean and selfish in their remarks. The golden rule is to learn to ignore what they say completely.
– Before they start talking, it’s a good idea to start the conversation on a positive note and avoid topics that even skim the edges of anything negative.
– Do not make the mistake of asking them, ‘So what’s up?’ Chances are that there’s a lot in their case and they are about to unload it all on you.
– Focusing on all the good things in your life is a good way to deal with the negativity heaped by them.
– You are not responsible for the person’s problems in life. Do not make them your own, even though you are an attentive listener. Don’t feel guilty about someone else’s mess-ups.
– If a person is hurt, chances are that he might want to see you hurt too. So, avoid falling for the trap when he or she tries to get a reaction out of you by hurting you anyhow.
– Empathize, but be firm in telling the person that it’s about time that they start being more positive in life. Or subtly put across the name of a self-help book on positivity and recommend it to the person.