101 ways to keep your marriage alive

1. Treat each other with respect.
2. Never resort to name-calling.
3. Give surprises.
4. Do a thoughtful thing unexpectedly.
5. Share humor.
6. Cook something delicious for him/her.
7. Listen when he/she talks.
8. Listen when he/she talks about something he/she loves and you don’t.
9. Argue like mature adults.
10. Let your inner children come alive together.
11. Take a trip.
12. Let petty things go.
13. Send a gift of love just because.
14. Laugh together.
15. Plan a romantic date together, just the two of you.
16. Take the first step to mend a fight.
17. Take the first step to stop a fight.
18. Be caring.
19. Support his/her plans and ideas.
20. Stop criticizing and nit-picking.
21. Dance together.
22. Sing together.
23. Cook together.
24. Share chores.
25. Share the remote.
26. Share news.
27. Share your feelings.
28. Have common values.
29. Be silly together once in a while.
30. Think before you accuse.
31. Think before you argue.
32. Choose your battles wisely.
33. Fix all fights before nap-time.
34. Cuddle.
35. Be affectionate.
36. Give a surprise kiss.
37. Watch good movies together.
38. Raise a child together.
39. Be a shoulder to cry on.
40. Never fight in public.
41. Never fight in front of your kids.
42. Learn how to agree to disagree.
43. Send a love note or card.
44. Draw him/her a nice relaxing bubble bath, and leave them alone to enjoy it in peace.
45. Give a good massage.
46. Tolerate their quirks.
47. Tolerate their relatives.
48. Tolerate their pets.
49. Tolerate their faults.
50. Never dig up old fights.
51. Never dig up their past.
52. Never bring up their exes.
53. Never bring up your exes.
54. Never compare them to someone else negatively.
55. Congratulate them when they do well.
56. Show that you appreciate him/her.
57. Support them when they fail.
58. Vent your feelings without violence.
59. Avoid unnecessary dramatics.
60. Look for good in them.
61. Never tell his/her faults to others behind his/her back.
62. Never tell his/her faults to others in front of him/her.
63. Keep an open mind.
64. Remember he/she is only human.
65. Keep disagreements in perspective.
66. Realize that you aren’t perfect either.
67. Be romantic.
68. Allow yourself to be vulnerable with him/her.
69. Allow him/her to be vulnerable with you.
70. Be willing to work on your relationship.
71. Get in shape.
72. Groom yourself.
73. Make sex enjoyable for both of you.
74. Make him/her your priority.
75. Do something wild together.
76. Be willing to compromise.
77. Look for win/win solutions.
78. Forgive past mistakes.
79. Forget past mistakes.
80. Never give or take abuse.
81. Never listen to gossip about him/her.
82. Defend him/her in front of others.
83. Be loyal to him/her.
84. Be passionate of him/her.
85. Dream together.
86. Have common goals.
87. Have common hobbies.
88. Have common friends.
89. Think twice before you criticize.
90. Let them feel secure in your love.
91. Be nice to their friends.
92. Treat him/her the way you want to be treated.
93. Help them heal their wounds.
94. Be trustworthy.
95. Be honest with each other.
96. Be proud of each other.
97. Console each other.
98. Treasure each other.
99. Be polite to each other.
100. Trust each other.
101. Love each other.

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