Since the God has created this world there is one battle which is continuously going on and may be it will be continuing for ever, that who is better? Girls or Boys and Why?
The answer to this question is not easy according to me. For some people it may be easy because they might be giving the decision looking at one aspect only. But if we want a correct answer to this question than we should look at all aspects or points before reaching any particular decision.
If we look at physical parameters or strength than definitely boys have an upper hand on girls but this cannot be the only parameter to measure the greatness of any one. Physical parameters are not stable parameters. Any body can have a good physique by proper work-out may that person be a boy or girl.
The main thing which we should take into consideration before deciding that who is better should be the all-round efforts that are put by a girl or a boy in her or his life throughout.
Let’s analyze each of them separately and then try to reach out to any specific decision. Let’s first analyze the boys (since I am also a boy).
A boy, or rather I should say a male,is a creature who is always a symbol of power, rough-and-tough attitude, bravery and many other things also. It might be true also. The general image of a male in the society is as the boss or head of the family and the earning member upon whom others (i.e. females and children) are dependent.
But is this all about a male to describe him.No, I don’t think it is all over. The description of a male is still not over. A male has a variety of roles to play at the same time in life and adjusts them equally well, may that role be of a father, brother, husband or child, or of a boss, employee or of the top-most post of the democracy i.e. the Prime Minister or the President. Over the past years, the typical dominating image of the man has changed somewhat. Now man can also be considered as lovable, charming and caring. They can manage home and office together, they can e house-husbands also or they can be equally caring person for a little child as a woman can.
But on the other hand, they can be most violent-creature of the world also, sometimes more violent and cruel than animals also. These all different shades of a male make him a diversifying personality in itself.
On the other hand, a girl or a female, I think is the most beautiful creation of the almighty God on this earth. But nowadays many people are trying to put a bad image of females in front of us. May be in some cases it might be true but the overall image of a lady is always as holy as the God is and this fact cannot be discarded.
A girl plays many roles in her life like that of a daughter, a working-women, mother, sister, wife, and a friend too and many other roles that we can think of. A girl has so much of love and care for each relation that she holds with her, in her heart that we cannot even imagine of it.
Nowadays girls are even participation in the fields which were considered men-oriented earlier. But the girls have changed the entire scenario now. They can be as perfect in any field as a man can as or even better than him sometimes (despite of being a man I don’t feel any hesitation in accepting this true fact).
A man can be better than a girl in physical parameters or strength but a girl will be better than him in terms of emotions (or heart) every time. In this particular point, a boy can never beat a girl.
That might be the reason that I have immense respect for ladies in my heart and my words too, and I put them at a place definitely higher than me always, and I also do no hesitate in accepting this fact. Not only this, but I think that this should be a feeling off all of us that we should accept that girls are a little better than boys because they are so perfect in emotions and feelings that they can make a life as happy life, because they have that magic to do so, the magic that boys (male) don’t have, even if they try hard but cannot get complete success in this without the help of a girl (or lady).
If anybody disagrees with my thoughts, than that person is free to prove me wrong but the fact is that I am not wrong in accepting the supremacy of ladies over gents because they are the one after God who are the creator’s of a life. And it is a true fact that a men need a women but a women can do well without men also but not a man can without women, whether some-one accepts it or not.
Author:-Mohit Kumar Jain
Date:-07-10-2007